A little love - an ocean of life
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About Me
I'm Andy. I am a Physics and Mathematics student with a passion for the cosmos and my wonderful friend and love of my life, Bethany.
Love never causes any pain, any suffering, any misunderstandings, any strife or conflict. These are the manifestations of a world that lacks love.
I am a little life on this earth, but a little bit of love can make an ocean of a difference; love can send wave after wave of peace and meaning to those who will stand in its waves.
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For some reason, I really found this funny. Good laugh. Good night. xD
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Psychologists Discover How People Subconsciously Become Their Favorite Fictional Characters
Psychologists have discovered that while reading a book or story, people are prone to subconsciously adopt their behavior, thoughts, beliefs and internal responses to that of fictional characters as if they were their own.
Experts have dubbed this subconscious phenomenon ‘experience-taking,’ where people actually change their own behaviors and thoughts to match those of a fictional character that they can identify with.
This is super cool, actually.
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25 DEEP Questions.
- 1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
- - Looking into someone's eyes and telling them how I feel. By far. Miles. I can easily look into someone else's eyes when they are telling me how they feel.
- 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
- - Don't know precisely when, but when Bethany informed me of some ridiculous bullshit her parents were doing to her as far as I could tell. No, I still don't feel this way. I think it might have been from all the stress and not being able to do one single thing about it except listen.
- 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
- - Bethany. Everything that I've ever treasured about life, my dream for humanity, and all my passwords and logins so people can post posthumous messages to my pages if they want to. I'm not really sure what else I'd say.
- 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
- - I would probably only tell the people necessary to hear it, then maybe one week before I tell everyone that I have one week to live. I would write a book. Honestly, yes I would be a little afraid. Pretty natural to feel unsettled being told when you are going to cease to exist, ya know...
- 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
- - Trust. I've found it much harder to earn as well as it being more fragile and precarious. At the same time though, I feel like it needs to be rightfully earned, not just given. Love on the other hand should be given, not earned.
- 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
- - I'd try to find someone else to save him or find something floatable that he could hold on to maybe. I'd also not be certain whether or not the dog was drowning. But if it is really just me, yes I most certainly would. A dog's life is more precious than my temporary money.
- 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
- - The one I trust the most IS the one I love the most, and the two go together hand in hand for me, so, irrelevant question.
- 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
- - Already happened, and I love her too very much.
- 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
- - The last person who I know closely who died was my grandmother. She was suffering a slow death of cancer and was unconscious for the hours leading up to her death, so no, I'll keep my year. Even if I gave back a conscious hour to her, I wouldn't. She was in great pain.
- 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
- - Oh man, tough question. I don't think I could be best friends with a person just like me, but I can be close friends. There are some things about myself that, given a mirror of myself, I think would annoy me a bit.
- 11. Does love = sex?
- - Lolno.
- 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
- - Yes. It is for the greater good for the greater number of people, and my coworker would be coming home with joyful news, not somber and depressing news.
- 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
- - I have a very hard time expressing my complete feelings to someone, but last time I did so was when I told Bethany how much I loved her.
- 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
- - That I don't love them back. That would trigger emotions of rejection in another, and I am sensitive to the thoughts of self-worth they might feel afterwards...
- 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
- - My natural gift for understanding science. I take great comfort in understanding the world around me and the dreams I get about the extent and reach of "reality." Losing this gift would be more painful to me than becoming physically paralyzed. Stephen Hawking is an excellent example I think of a content and intellectually curious human being despite physical struggles.
- 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
- - My parents. They definitely were and are role models to me in many ways. They also cared for me and loved me deeply while I was growing up, and I think they still do. : P
- 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
- - Going to Chinese with Bethany instead of going home. The food made her ill, and I'm frustrated that I didn't pick up on the actual degree to which she really wanted to go out that night.
- 18.Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
- - One from the team of the Avengers as a personal body guard. If the person outside was a threat that is. Um. If you exclude the creepy person, I would wish to be with Bethany, as we would be still quite content hugging and cuddling with one another in the dark and rain.
- 19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
- - Most definitely. My comfort versus their survival? Psh. That's an obvious choice.
- 21.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
- - I would leave the decision to my grandmother by asking her as she is hanging from my hand. So long as I am absolutely sure that I can't save them both... maybe I'm thinking about this too much. The real question is who do I save if that must be a choice on my part... um... All my grandparents are dead, so I don't know what age "your grandmother" would be. Anything less than 65, I think I'd save the grandmother. The newborn might not even know that it's in danger and hasn't a grip on what life is yet very much anyway... still, a really tough call. The newborn obviously has potential for a whole life while the grandmother doesn't. Hm.
- 22. Are you old fashioned?
- - Not very much. But I don't "buy" into current culture very much at all.
- 23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
- - Helping Sarah with Geometry homework last week. Heh.
- 24.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
- - True love with a guarantee of a broken heart? That's paradoxical to me... whatever. I'd rather experience love from others and have them desert me than never have had friends at all.
- 25.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
- - The ability to remodel reality into a sort of utopia for me and for everyone else. I have a few ideas about what I would do. Still, that's quite a job, being in control of all of reality. Just a little responsibility, ya know... xD
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Oh good. Another computer and my feet. Where are the zombies? I’m ready.
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Oh wow. A statically charged balloon got brought close to a stream of polar molecules and the electric attraction showed that there’s another force in the universe besides gravity. SCIENCE.
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"I do not love you as if you were salt-rose, or topaz, or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off. I love you as certain dark things are to be loved, in secret, between the shadow and the soul."
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INFJ Confessions 1035) I wondee if a lot of INFJs suffer from depression or is it just me
I think I have some weird periodic thing where I just suddenly succumb to depression and badly. Then after a couple days it’s over. It just doesn’t make sense. I became depressed when Bethany was hugging me and smiling over me and loving me. Seriously brain? Wtf.
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inspiration<3
Well, I sure feel like I did nothing with my day today. Sat in front of computers and read a little bit. Well I also helped set up for the party and stuff but… that’s about it. Oh boy. And I just feel so mentally and physically drained, depressed. I need to get some exercise or something already… Yes, tomorrow will be a different, more productive day from me. Just need to put this day and its challenging times behind me…
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